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Judgement and Cloth Diapering

Posted by: Marilynin Discussion in Discussion
14
Oct

Beware of pointy diapers!
Creative Commons License photo credit: Photocapy

In the minefield known as Motherhood, there is an awful lot of judgement.  And a lot of it is, actually, unconscious.  It is an uncertain time in our lives, this journey into Parenthood, and we ALL worry about whether or not we’re doing a good job.  In that respect, it almost makes sense that once we think we have a tenuous grip on the “right” answers, that we will think of all other answers as being the “wrong” ones.

Cloth diapering is no different in this regard, sadly.  However, the good news is that not everyone judges other parents for their choices.  Think of it this way.  Do all mothers who breastfeed their babies think poorly of mothers who feed their babies formula?  Of course not.  Do parents who sleep in the same bed as their children think poorly of all parents who put their babies into cribs from day one?  Nope.  I could go on and on, but I think you get my point.

Not ALL parents who cloth diaper their children think poorly of parents who use disposables.  Sure, there are some that do.  There’s always an exception to the rule.  But I think it’s just that.  An exception.

I, for one, used disposable diapers a LOT longer than I’ll be using cloth.  And my toddler still uses some disposables since our stash isn’t quite big enough for two children.  So I would be the last person to think harshly of someone who uses disposable diapers.  My choices are mine.  Sure, I wish I had ventured into cloth diapering years ago.  That I knew just how EASY it was.  And if a mom who uses disposables were to belittle my choices, I would be very upset.

So therefore, it stands to reason, that if a mom who uses cloth were to belitter a mom who uses disposables, perhaps it would make her very upset too.

Maybe, instead of trying to evangelize cloth diapering, we should just be glad that there is an option like cloth diapering available to us.  And that maybe, if we continue to sing it’s praises, more and more mothers will be drawn towards it as an option.  Isn’t that the best way?  To support each other and our choices as parents?

This is a hard job, being a mom.  Let’s try really hard not to make it any harder.

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I’m a little sad that I’m only just now starting to use cloth diapers, now with my third and final child.  Why didn’t I start with my first, back when he was born in 1999?  I knew people then who were using cloth diapers and was aware enough that I knew the process of cloth diapering was different than it was for my mother’s generation.  But something held me up.

I know exactly what that something is.  It’s the same something that holds any of you who are reading this from trying cloth diapers.  It’s the poop.  I was nervous about having to deal with it more than I already had to.  And dunking a diaper in a toilet to rinse poop off?  Oh hells NO.  Anyone who even remotely knows me knows that’s about the LAST thing I’d ever want to do.  I’d rather throw the damned thing away than do that.  Which led back to disposable diapers.  It’s a lot cheaper to throw away something that is meant to be thrown away, you know?

I was also nervous about the cost.  It’s a lot of money upfront.  It’s a tremendous savings in the long run, pretty much no matter what you do.  But having a couple hundred dollars on hand to start a stash of cloth diapers?  Well, that doesn’t happen too often around here.  It’s a lot easier to rustle up the $14 for a box of cheap diapers from Walmart than $300 for a couple dozen pocket diapers.

But I’m here to tell you that it’s not as hard as all that.  If you are unfamiliar with today’s cloth diapering methods, take everything you think you know about cloth diapers and throw it out the window.  I thought I knew, only to learn that I don’t.  It’s like learning to read all over again.  It’s so much different, so much easier, than I ever expected.

There is no dunking diapers in toilets if you really don’t want to.  Honest!  First off, if your child is a newborn you don’t even need to do anything with the poop since it easily washes out.  You just toss it in the pail and you’re done with it.  You can use flushable liners that catch all the poop and just dump them into the toilet.  The best solution, the one I’m going to be using, is a diaper sprayer (like Brit mentioned in her post).  Just spray the diaper and it’s contents into the toilet and voila.   Toss it in the pail and you’re done.  And that’s another thing.  You don’t have to have a “wet pail” or anything like that.  I have a regular garbage can from Walmart with a lid that closes.  Inside, I have a waterproof and washable liner and when it’s time to do laundry, I just take the whole liner upstairs and dump the whole kit and kaboodle in the washer.  Never have to touch a diaper.

And, believe it or not, I realized that you don’t have to buy your entire stash all at once.  If you are still pregnant, you can set aside money each month or buy little by little until the little one arrives.  If you already have a child, you can buy a diaper here and there and fill in the gaps with disposables.  Using prefolds and diaper covers is a lot easier than I would have figured and it’s VERY inexpensive.  Trust me, if I can afford it, anyone can.  I use those in the day, when we’re going to be home and it has worked out great.  One dozen prefolds lasts me about a day and a half with using the pocket diaper at night.  I do laundry every other day.

That brings me to the issue of laundry.  You might be thinking: I don’t think I can handle ALL THAT LAUNDRY.  I thought the same thing.  I can hardly stay on top of the regular laundry around here, after all.  Anytime I would look into it, I would see instructions on all the different cycles of wash and the process and get freaked out.  But, seriously, it’s not too bad.  If I had a real nice washer that had programmable cycles, it’d be even easier.  Still, it’s not at all bad.  And while I may have piles of regular laundry stacking up around me, I have no trouble getting the diaper laundry done.  I do a cold wash or a cold rinse first (depending on how dirty the diapers in the wash are), followed by a wash in hot water.  I use maybe 1/2 the detergent you’d normally use (and I’m using Purex Free and Clear, which comes recommended and is so far working really well for me).  I finish up with another cold rinse before putting the diapers in the dryer on medium heat.  I take the prorap covers out and let them air dry.  I also take out anything that has a stain on it.  All you need to do is let that lie or hang in the sun and the stain will be gone.  BELIEVE ME, IT’S TRUE.  And that’s it, ya’ll.  It’s that easy.  I stuff the pocket diapers with their inserts when they come out of the dryer, fold up the washcloths we’re using as wipes and put them in the container and stack up the fleece liners and prefolds and I’m ready to go.  It is as easy as that.

Today’s cloth diapering is all about convenience.  Well, convenience and cute patterns, soft fabrics and adorable designs.  But convenience and functionality most of all.  In the immortal words of Alka-Seltzer and Kathy Griffen, “Try it, you’ll like it.”

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Rumparooz Tag

Remember when I said that I had to have a Rumparooz diaper?  Well, I must be a spoiled brat because I got one.  And I watched the tracking information online until this diaper ended up in my hot little hands this last Tuesday.  It was probably the highlight of my week.  No, let me rephrase that.  It WAS the highlight of my week.  I mean, look at this thing:

Rumparooz in Lavender Minky Cuddle Bubble

So how beautiful it is?  While the “bubble” aspect of the minky fabric is less bubbly than I would have expected, the minky is still incredibly plush and I couldn’t stop running my fingers through it.  The inner lining isn’t to be discounted either, though.  The fleece that is used in there is also insanely plush.  At least, I think it’s fleece.  Whatever it is, it’s heaven on my wee girl’s bottom.  The inner gussets are very cool and I found they worked great.  Evie had her daily poop while wearing this (of course), and the gussets contained the mess easily.

Front of the Rumparooz

Evie seemed very comfortable in this diaper, though I couldn’t help but fuss about the fit.  I wondered if Evie was ready for the “medium” setting yet.  The “small” setting seems very small.  The stretchy tabs are very stretchy, though, and allow for a lot of fine-tuning of the fit.  I do worry about the fabric catching and snagging on the hook portion of the closure, but I don’t think I can really avoid it.  Also, the aplix closure doesn’t seem near as “sticky” as the ones on the bumGenius, but I don’t have a problem with that (yet).

Side of the Rumparooz

There is a definite “bubble butt” effect with this diaper.  Could be because of the “small” setting adding extra bulk.  Could be because it’s a pocket diaper and they are notoriously bulky.  I find I don’t mind so much.  I think you just need to plan the wardrobe while the baby is wearing such a diaper accordingly.  Of course, today was a warm day so I just let her wear a top with her diaper and that was it.  Very cute.

Back of the Rumparooz

I actually have three MORE Rumparooz coming my way courtesy of the FSOT forum at Diaper Swappers.  None of them are minky, so I’m interested to see if I’ll love them as much without the FABOO fabric.  I’m betting that I will.  Because, at the heart of it, these diapers performed just as I would have wanted them.  Add in that they look good while doing it and you’ve got yourself a winner!  I think this is a great diaper for anyone who is a fan of the one-size bumGenius diapers since the performance is very similar.  And seriously.  Can you turn this down?  I don’t think so.

Evie in her Rumparooz

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